"Why is the victim blamed when it's not her fault?" What you need to do to say goodbye to sexual violence

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"Why is the victim blamed when it's not her fault?" What you need to do to say goodbye to sexual violence


 




I didn't even suspect that there was anything wrong with sexual assault because it was so common in our society that it's just downplayed. The only thing you can do is to change your behavior to avoid being a victim. I never had the idea that society should change, rather the victims.

However, now that this social trend has been given a name, "rape culture," and has been featured in  headlines, I see that many people are beginning to demand change and my awareness has changed.







Why isn't the problem of the perpetrator being pursued in depth? I think we need to change the thought process where only the victim's behavior is pointed out. Although people still look for the victim, the victim is not at all to blame. It is the perpetrators who have the real problems, and it is the perpetrators who need to change, and it is our society that has created such perpetrators.

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Original post: Girls Channel


2. This is a male society. Today's Japan is still deeply rooted in male domination

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<< Some idiots think rape = reward [+430, -13]

<< It is a hellish system where all the important positions are held by men, and you have to be in the good mood of men to get promoted. I was a reasonably good student when I was a kid, but I didn't want to get ahead by riding to school on a train full of perverts in Tokyo and enduring sexual harassment by men.

I wonder if the men of those days were patting the asses of high school girls on the train and sexually harassing at work to relieve stress while working, and now they're getting paid and getting pensions. It's easy for them, isn't it? [+118, -9]


4. I know it's important to defend yourself, but I don't think it's something you should tell victims...

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5. It's true, isn't it? There is something wrong with the world when it looks for faults in every victim

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8. Let the f*cking-perpetrators  males get f*cked by pervy gay men with criminal records

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<< They might not be gay guys type, this is a rude comment [+222, -23]

<< Gays have the right to choose lol [+208, -20]


9. Why is it that when a man commits a sex crime, it's women who get the blame? I think men are protecting men

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<< Some people, even those same women, blame the female victim [+309, -3]


10. Some men look at me in an even more erotic way when they know I'm a sexual victim. I think this is really disgusting

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11. Well, of course, harsher punishment. Sex crimes are another sexual habit that needs to be dealt with very seriously once they' re caught.

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14. My cute and quiet friend was often the victim of groping and stalking. Of course, she was not wearing any revealing clothes at all. I couldn't help but worry that she would get into serious trouble one day

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15. I'd like to see a system of retribution where anyone who's ever been raped gets the same treatment. Rape is murder of your soul

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16. Honorary men who support inferiority between men and women are also guilty of this aren't they

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19. I wonder if men can't understand the fear. When the TV in our lounge at work talked about sexual crimes the men said "Why didn't she reject" and "why didn't she scream" while saying that rape is a unforgivable crime but it's not enough to just scream or refusing

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